The first step in starting to develop with Salesforce.com is to register for a developer account.
Once you are registered you will have access to the Force.Com Workbook. Download a pdf copy and read up on it before diving in. This will give you an overview of the architecture, workflow, business logic etc at a higher level.
Next step is to access Apex Workbook which describes the Apex Programming Language. This will allow you to develop custom solutions using Salesforce's native language.
There is a whole series of PDFs here with valuable information.
If you are going to be connecting Salesforce to an external application please check out the Salesforce Integration QuickStart.
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